Henry and Anita Have Been Married for Five Years and Have

Multiple Choice

Henry and Anita have been married for five years and have evolved to the point that they feel they are ineffective in arguing to resolve their conflict. According to a study on relationship communication and unhappy couples, which of the following should Henry and Anita try to practise?

A) focusing on defending themselves
B) paying attention to each other's nonverbal messages
C) criticizing each other
D) using evaluative "you" language