If You Want to Avoid Implying That a Person's Sexual/affection

Multiple Choice

If you want to avoid implying that a person's sexual/affection preferences are the same as a person's essence, how should you describe a woman who has romantic and sexual relationships and fantasies only with other women?

A) "She is queer."
B) "She is a lesbian."
C) "She is a homosexual."
D) "She is a lesbian woman."