Philena Has Been Dating Daniel for a Few Weeks, and They

Multiple Choice

Philena has been dating Daniel for a few weeks, and they feel that they are ready to have sex. They have talked about using protection, and, while she wants him to use a condom, he thinks that since they are monogamous they will be safe relying solely on her birth control medication. Philena isn't comfortable with Daniel's perspective and wants to help him understand what she is feeling without seeming as if she is accusing or threatening him. Which statement is the BEST example of an "I" statement that Philena could use to convince Daniel to acknowledge her feelings?

A) "I'll never have sex with you if you won't wear a condom."
B) "I am the one who's risking getting pregnant-not you!"
C) "I can't believe you're not willing to wear a condom for me."
D) "I feel like we'd be putting our health at risk if we didn't use condoms."