Exam 10: Understanding Each Other
Hierarchical knowledge structures that include beliefs about relationships CANNOT explain how:
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6.Long-term married partners tend to retrospectively report a U-shaped change in their marital satisfaction (that is, looking back they believe their relationships started out great, worsened somewhat over time, and then improved more recently). On the other hand, research demonstrates that marital satisfaction generally shows a linear decline over time. How can we explain this apparent discrepancy?
Retrospective memories are inaccurate and systematically biased. Because the memory process is flexible, it allows people to remember the past in ways that justify current feelings about the relationship and to forget information that might threaten those feelings. Thus, most people fail to remember that their relationship satisfaction has declined over time and instead view their relationships as having improved recently, which fits with their views that their relationships are growing and improving and likely to do so in the future. These biases help people maintain their existing positive feelings about being in their relationships and prevent threatening information (e.g., our relationship is deteriorating) from entering awareness.
According to the commitment calibration hypothesis, who should rate photos of the attractiveness of attractive members of the other sex the highest (assuming the raters are heterosexual)? People in:
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12.A group of men is having a stag party at a bar. The men have been admiring a couple of attractive women sitting across the room. The exception is Keith, who is in a committed relationship. Keith says that he doesn't find the women attractive at all. One of his friends replies, ÒAre you crazy? Those women are hot!Ó How can you explain Keith's response?
The text describes several mechanisms of motivated reasoning in relationships. Something that all of these techniques have in common is that they:
Jose and Savannah have just had a huge argument about finances, but now they feel closer to each other than before. How would you explain this using the empathy accuracy model?
Jack and Kate are unhappy in their relationship. Robbie and Sawyer are happy in their relationship. One night, Jack and Robbie find themselves sitting at a restaurant waiting for their very late partners to arrive for dinner. According to research on attributions in relationships, Jack is likely to think ________, and Robbie is likely to think ________.
Selective attention and memory bias serve to ________, whereas adaptive attributions and flexible standards serve to ________.
Even after Bill Clinton had an affair with Monica Lewinsky, Hillary Clinton did not seek to divorce him. What kind of information processing may have led to her decision to stay?
Unhappy spouses tend to make attributions that are ________ and ________, which may maintain their distress.
In a study by MacDonald and Ross (1999), friends, parents, and students were asked to predict how long the student's romantic relationship would last. Who was the LEAST accurate about the likelihood of the student's relationship lasting, and why?
Your friend Hugo recently met Jimena in his social psychology class and would like to ask her out on a date. Hugo spends a lot of time describing to you in great detail the latest interactions he has had with Jimena, trying to analyze whether she would be receptive to an overture. Which of the following best describes Hugo's behavior?
13.Your friend Tianda argues that it is always important to understand and to have empathy for a partner's thoughts and feelings about the relationship. In what way is she right, and in what way is she wrong?
In terms of cognitive processing in relationships, what is a Òfatal attractionÓ?
John has been married 10 years but is very unhappy with his relationship. There is an attractive female co-worker, Leila, at his office. According to the commitment calibration hypothesis, in which of the following situations is John most likely to DOWNPLAY his perception of Leila's attractiveness?
Bjorn perceives his partner's intentions in a conflict discussion very differently than they are perceived by outside observers. These differing perceptions can best be explained by:
11.What are downward social comparisons, and under what conditions are people particularly likely to engage in downward social comparisons, and why?
5.Explain assimilation and accommodation, and provide a relationship example of each.
1.Early in her relationship with Sean, Barbara loved his spontaneity: on a moment's notice, he would make plans for them to go on a week-long canoe trip or to Mexico on holidays. Now that they have been married 15 years and have two sons, Barbara finds Sean's unpredictability frustrating and feels he is being irresponsible when he makes spur-of-the-moment plans. Based on the chapter about cognitive processing in relationships, what would you say has happened in Barbara and Sean's relationship?
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